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Monday, April 22nd, 2019

Energy's always put into relationships that are destined to fail. One-sided feelings has no recourse. Breathlessly we chase what will never be. Desperation gets you nothing. Don't make your heart suffer in vain. See the problem, recognize it for what it is then move on.

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Sunday, April 21st, 2019

Now is the only moment that anything can be done. If you have ever been on the rocks of a relationship than this article may help you to improve all parts of your relationships. People sometimes get stuck in a rut and this affects all parts of their life. That means they get up and go to work, come home, eat, watch television and go to bed. It is time to consider the others around us and start acting in their best interest. We get into relationships because we love these people. Begin to act as in the beginning. When dating we treat people different than when we have been with someone for a decade. Should that attitude of dating change?

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Marriages with strong foundations include a worldview that goes deeper than compatibility, best friends and love – deeper than feelings. What is unseen in these relationships is the view that the goal is not happiness; the goal is oneness. The couple know they are a team, with most of the following philosophies: (1) Each one is out to make the other happy, rather than focus on making the self happy. (2) Happiness is not the goal of marriage because happiness is like the ebb and flow of a tide, always changing. (3) The goal of marriage is deeper – for the betterment of our souls.Together, we are stronger, and left alone, we might persevere in bad habits and selfishness. Marriage helps us reach virtues and maturity. Through sacrifice and consideration of another person, we must come out of our cozy caves. Choosing to love means you will have a better chance of persevering through betrayals and temporary feelings, calling upon forgiveness and healing.

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Sunday, April 21st, 2019

Human beings want to love and to be loved. Some are more eager than others to find their "soul mate," and the sooner the better. Beware and be smart! Do not rush into a relationship due to loneliness, desperation, or a decision based on feelings. How well do you know your beloved? It is easy to overlook obvious data when your heart and mind are clouded by your dreamy ideals. Love is not entirely chemistry; it involves knowledge of the person, and of yourself. You need to know how one reacts to stress and trauma and how one handles changes in life. Are you familiar with the person's history, birth order, temperament, pain, challenges, financial philosophy, etc? Can you really look into someone's eyes and know whether they are able to forgive, whether they respect all human beings and what their world view is, how is was formed and how they practice it? Happy, meaningful lifelong relationships are not usually formed within a few seconds, days or weeks.

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